.However what Astrid does not recognize but is an honest truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who possesses pair of children-- may attest to: The fact that your partnership along with your parents modifications and grows as you both grow older, and also hopefully right. "Your planet centers around [your children] when they are actually babies [and] it's a lot work however wonderful," O'Hara claims. "Eventually, you really miss out on that, since after that you can't get them to perform everything you prefer them to carry out, since they begin developing their personal minds, their very own viewpoints." And also at some point, you find yourself in the place O'Hara, whose children remain in their 20s as well as 30s, discovers herself now, able to gain from her youngsters. "They are actually only such great young men," she states. "I am actually not their pal, yet I love having discussions with all of them and also getting to know just how they consider lifestyle.".